Anonymous counselling & live chat

Ask what moves you - about sex, health, feelings or life as a queer man. Our counsellors are there for you: anonymously, free of charge and at eye level.

Gay Health Chat - direct, anonymous and genuinely queer

The live chat for gay, bi+ and trans men - confidential & close to the community

In the Gay Health Chat, you can get quick, confidential help - directly from people in the community. Our counsellors know what it means to live a queer life. They will listen to you without judgement - and support you with anything that concerns you.

Whether you have questions about sex, HIV, PrEP, feelings or drugs: You can talk openly in the chat - without registering and completely anonymously.


More information about the offer

  • No registration necessary

  • Free of charge & ad-free

  • All counsellors are trained and queer themselves

  • You remain anonymous - nothing is saved

Whether you have questions about sex, HIV, PrEP, feelings or drugs: You can talk openly in the chat - without registering and completely anonymously.


Online counselling from the AIDS service organisation

Mail and individual chat counselling by the AIDS service organisations

The online counselling service of the AIDS service organisations is there for you - no matter where you live or what's on your mind. Whether you have a specific question, just want to talk or are worried about your health, your sexuality or your well-being: here you will find people who will listen, take you seriously and support you.

You decide, how you would like to be advisedby email, in a one-to-one chat, on the phone or in person on site. Counselling is anonymous, free and confidential - without any pressure.

Many AIDS service organisations offer queer counsellors or have special experience with topics such as PrEP, HIV, coming out, drugs or discrimination.

The speciality:
You can search specifically for Location, topic or language and choose the type of counselling and contact person that really suits you.


Whether you have questions about sex, HIV, PrEP, feelings or drugs: You can talk openly in the chat - without registering and completely anonymously.


Advice by e-mail

Do you want to take your time and write in peace? Then email counselling is the right thing for you. You formulate your thoughts at your own pace - and receive a personal response from our counsellors.

Advice via individual chat

Would you like to write directly to someone? You can get quick support in a one-to-one chat - live, anonymous and free of charge. Many AIDS service organisations offer fixed chat times.

Telephone counselling

Do you prefer speaking to writing? No problem. Many AIDS service organisations are also available by phone. Here you can talk to a real person about everything - directly, humanely and at your own pace.

Personal advice on site

Sometimes it's best to talk face to face. In many cities, you can get counselling directly from an AIDS service organisation - with fixed appointments and a protected setting.