Too small, too thin, too old, too little hair on the chest: rejections can have many reasons. But how does a transTrans (short for transgender or transident) describes people whose gender identity does not match the gender they are assigned. Mehr* Man with baskets? Where is the borderline to discrimination? We conducted an interview with Alexander.
Alexander, do you have a relaxed relationship with rejections?
It is important to differentiate: Does someone reject me as a person because I transTrans (short for transgender or transident) describes people whose gender identity does not match the gender they are assigned. Mehr* am? Or does he just not want to have sex with me?
Is it difficult for some transTrans (short for transgender or transident) describes people whose gender identity does not match the gender they are assigned. Mehr* men find it difficult to tell the difference?
I sometimes get that impression. Many transTrans (short for transgender or transident) describes people whose gender identity does not match the gender they are assigned. Mehr* Men I know relate rejection very strongly to their identity. Sometimes they get really frustrated verbally. Maybe there have already been three or four stupid comments that day. Then I can understand that from a human point of view. On the other hand, we all have to accept that not everyone fancies us. Regardless of whether transTrans (short for transgender or transident) describes people whose gender identity does not match the gender they are assigned. Mehr* or not. It's all part of going out.
How do you react when a friend unloads their frustrations on you?
Up to a certain limit, it does make it easier to work under transTrans (short for transgender or transident) describes people whose gender identity does not match the gender they are assigned. Mehr* to really annoy men. But other people transTrans (short for transgender or transident) describes people whose gender identity does not match the gender they are assigned. Mehr* To assume hostility just because they don't want to sleep with you is going too far for me. I would either say so directly or carefully try to develop strategies together to deal with baskets. Depending on the relationship we have with each other.
Do you have any tips on how to avoid sexual rejection?
I wouldn't call them tips. But I can tell you how I behave. For me, it's important to sound out the situation first. Does someone react at all to my attempts at flirting? How does a man look me in the eye? Is he open in conversation? Only when I'm sure that the person I'm talking to is fundamentally empathetic and interested in me do I speak my mind. transTrans (short for transgender or transident) describes people whose gender identity does not match the gender they are assigned. Mehr* Identity to.
And then?
I think it's perfectly okay if someone makes it clear to me that sex is out of the question for them. The tone makes the music. Why should I be angry with someone who treats me with respect? The situation may not be easy for the other person either. The decisive factor for me is how this man behaves towards me later on.
In what way?
There have been times when someone has gone behind my back to make a huge issue out of my transTrans (short for transgender or transident) describes people whose gender identity does not match the gender they are assigned. Mehr* identity. He was apparently completely off his rocker about it and asked all sorts of people about it, along the lines of "would you have thought? I thought that was totally ridiculous. However, it seemed that only he himself was interested in the gossip anyway.
Is there anything else that offends you more than a basket?
Poisonous compliments! Something like "Oh look, I wouldn't have thought that you used to be a woman." Or even "Wow, for a transTrans (short for transgender or transident) describes people whose gender identity does not match the gender they are assigned. Mehr* you look pretty masculine." I find that unreflected and immature.
