The "pre-ejaculate" reflects the whole drama surrounding Safer sexSafer sex means organising sex in such a way that the risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) is kept to a minimum. The most important metho... Mehrfor AIDS service counsellors is the constant Pleasure dropsPleasure drops are a clear liquid that is released from the urethra of men (or people with a penis) shortly before or during sexual arousal. Mehr the supreme discipline. After all, who believes what they know? A commentary by Holger Wicht
That's how nice they look before they get wet!
Nobody has probably noticed it yet, but the male member is somewhat reminiscent of Gremlins: when it gets wet, it gets serious.
Perhaps that needs explaining: The 1984 film "Gremlins - Little Monsters" was about adorable cuddly toys that could quickly turn into biting beasts. If they came into contact with liquid, disaster took its course.
Now, as we all know, a penis doesn't bite if it is covered with ... let's say ... Saliva comes into contact with the penis. However, as soon as fluid comes out of the penis during oral sex, it is not uncommon for the wind player to withdraw in horror, as the drop promises disaster. This is due to 30 years of HIV prevention: "Get out before it comes!" - most people have deeply internalised this message. We have learnt that anyone who puts semen in their mouth is at risk of HIV infection.
Now the Pleasure dropsPleasure drops are a clear liquid that is released from the urethra of men (or people with a penis) shortly before or during sexual arousal. Mehr According to Dr Sommer, it can make you pregnant from time to time, but it is not sperm. Science and prevention have not yet found a solution for the - as the saying goes Pre-liquid was issued with a clear special licence from the outset: The virus concentration in it was not sufficient for HIV transmission during oral sex. To put it more lyrically: You don't get sunburn from the first heralds of spring.
Sperm nope, Pleasure dropsPleasure drops are a clear liquid that is released from the urethra of men (or people with a penis) shortly before or during sexual arousal. Mehr okay? Who has ever swallowed this message so easily?
So it could be that simple: sperm nope, Pleasure dropsPleasure drops are a clear liquid that is released from the urethra of men (or people with a penis) shortly before or during sexual arousal. Mehr Okay. But let's be honest, most of us have never swallowed this message or the noble drop itself without a second thought. For many people, the Pleasure dropsPleasure drops are a clear liquid that is released from the urethra of men (or people with a penis) shortly before or during sexual arousal. Mehr a love killer. And from the very beginning until today, it has been the supreme discipline of counselling. Because this droplet of bodily fluid reflects the entire universe of Safer sexSafer sex means organising sex in such a way that the risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) is kept to a minimum. The most important metho... Mehrall the knowledge of transmission probabilities and all the fears and eventualities that leave people with no peace of mind.
... but then!
In other words: We know that nothing can happen - but does that give us peace of mind?
In reality, it looks like this: As long as we can't see or taste anything, everything is fine, and the little bit of liquid won't kill us. As soon as the Pleasure dropsPleasure drops are a clear liquid that is released from the urethra of men (or people with a penis) shortly before or during sexual arousal. Mehr However, if it forces its way into our perception, it can wash out landslide-like worries, however small they may be.
It starts with the fact that it is not always just one drop; you are confronted with very different quantities. And if it's not just one Pleasure dropsPleasure drops are a clear liquid that is released from the urethra of men (or people with a penis) shortly before or during sexual arousal. Mehrbut a lustrine saliva or even a stream of lust - isn't that perhaps the exception to the safer sex rule? Don't the extremely few viruses per microlitre then add up and exceed the dangerous limit?
Is that still pre-liquid at all? Or is it perhaps already sperm? There are men with a lot of pre-cum and men with sparse semen. Consistencies vary. Both fluids come out of the same orifice in quick succession. Pleasure dropsPleasure drops are a clear liquid that is released from the urethra of men (or people with a penis) shortly before or during sexual arousal. Mehr and ejaculate - for the practitioner, these are terms with little discriminatory power!
And let's be honest: the fact that a "low virus concentration" is not sufficient for an infection is a very shaky construct anyway. Now we're also hearing that the rectum is where the Pleasure dropsPleasure drops are a clear liquid that is released from the urethra of men (or people with a penis) shortly before or during sexual arousal. Mehr very dangerous. The feeling of safety is definitely fucked!
And anyway: I bit my tongue last night, sabred my gums with dental floss after dinner and mucous membranes are not to be trusted anyway. In this specific case, isn't the door now open to the virus?
With the Pleasure dropsPleasure drops are a clear liquid that is released from the urethra of men (or people with a penis) shortly before or during sexual arousal. Mehr Make friends?
It is a series of irrational fears that the Pleasure dropsPleasure drops are a clear liquid that is released from the urethra of men (or people with a penis) shortly before or during sexual arousal. Mehr and they are all the more difficult to handle because a few justified doubts resonate. This is the case with Safer sexSafer sex means organising sex in such a way that the risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) is kept to a minimum. The most important metho... MehrWhile we strive for full devotion, we secretly calculate in probabilities - and always with the worst in mind. Residual risks are to be accepted - but they cheat their way to the fore because fear is one of the most skilful illusionists under the sun.
You can't always beat fear out of the field with information, but at least you can limit it. Fortunately, we now know that even a full load of semen in the mouth is only a small risk compared to unprotected anal intercourse. Perhaps this will help us to deal with the Pleasure dropsPleasure drops are a clear liquid that is released from the urethra of men (or people with a penis) shortly before or during sexual arousal. Mehr make friends?
If not, I recommend the counselling services of Deutsche AIDS-Hilfe. They are already familiar with the topic.
