Emrah Gökmen - 'My family - Queers in the migration society'

Emrah Gökmen from the project "Meine Familie - Queers in der Migrationsgesellschaft" speaks at CSD Berlin about empowerment, belonging and visibility of queer people with a history of flight and migration - and calls for recognition, protection and solidarity.
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Diversity is not a luxury, but a human right

Dear Queers,
dear migrant, refugee and many other BIPoC-queer existences,
I am very happy to be here with you today at the Berlin CSD.
My name is Emrah Gökmen, and I am part of the project "My Family -
Queers in the Migration Society" organised by the Turkish Association in Berlin￾Brandenburg.
Our project is a place of empowerment, solidarity and
storytelling - for queer people with migration or migration backgrounds
Experienced refugees in Berlin.
But also for their families, friendsand allies. Berlin is a city of diversity. A city in which many people with different identities and affiliations live together. This diversity is its strength - but it cannot be taken for granted. Because we all know that: This diversity is not always protected. And not always valued. Time and again, we are labelled in a simplified way: either just as LGBTQIA or only as migrants -
as if our identities existed side by side instead of together
to be interwoven.
But we are not either-or -
we are more.
We are many.
We are communities that cannot be defined one-dimensionally - and there are
do not want either.

Space for self-determination and empowerment


Our project exists for precisely this reason:
To make the realities of our lives visible in all their complexity.
To normalise them.
To protect ourselves - from violence, from discrimination - and to protect each other.
to empower.
Because there are still so many unanswered questions:

  • Why is equality for all still not a reality?
  • Why should living together in solidarity be impossible?
  • Why can't people simply live their basic rights?

    We face these questions with hope.
    Because we believe:
    Love, solidarity and living together are possible.
    Against violence, hatred, queerophobia and racism -
    we can only be strong together.
    In our project, we tell the stories of queer people with
    Experience of flight or migration -
    and also those of their families and companions.
    We create spaces in which visibility, coming out or not coming out are possible.
    Where self-determination counts.
    Where access to rights is not the exception, but the norm.
    Because:
    That is not a luxury.
    That is a human right.
    This is the new matter of course that we want to shape together.
    Because every form of discrimination - whether queer-hostile or racist
    narrows the spaces in which we can live, love and develop.
  • But today - here - at the Berlin CSD, under the rainbow flags, we say out loud
    and clear:
    Queers with migration and refugee histories are a natural part
    of this diverse society.
    We deserve recognition. We deserve protection.
    We deserve visibility.
    And we are not alone with this project.
    Our sincere thanks go to:
  • of Deutsche Aidshilfe, which has invited us today,
  • of the State Office for Equal Treatment - against discrimination of the Berlin
    Senate Department, which is funding our project,
  • and our supporting organisation, the Turkish Federation in Berlin-Brandenburg
    (TBB) - thank you for your constant support and trust.
    Finally, I would like to say to you all:
    Don't forget -
    we are here.
    Just as we are.
    With our families.
    With our communities.
    With our Queerness.
    And we are continuing with this project -
    to show even more people:
    We are neither wrong nor alone.
    Thank you.